Definitely, no one wants to get stuck in a bad relationship. But it can happen, and we need to be prepared for it.
Most of the times we don’t want to accept the fact that our relationship is over and we stay there.
People stay in toxic relationships for too many reasons.
One of them is that we get comfortable with the current situation learning to face it and just continue on the same path because perhaps change is hard.
We engage in denial and go on because it’s easier for us or maybe because at some point we still love that person.
Anyway, you can know if your relationship is doomed when you detect some stuff going on.
Things that never happened before or that perhaps happened but you didn’t notice or never bothers you so much to say something about it.
Acts or habits that before seems to be little but now are huge and bothers you a lot.
You can pay attention to the things going on in your relationship and know once and for all if you still can save your relationship or if it’s over.
Here you can find five reasons to see if it’s time to move on.
Well if you don’t feel that rush anymore, something is happening.
It doesn’t mean that is ending, but something is awful there.
Most of the times you can probably fix it, but if you are not happy together anymore, there are huge possibilities that you guys are not meant to be anymore.
If everything else makes him/her happy but not you, is a pretty strong sign that your relationship is doomed.
Because unhappiness can always lead to a separation or a divorce.
And you need to think about this, because, what is the point of being in a relationship where you are not happy anymore?
Well, at this point is linked to the previous one because when you are not satisfied.
You can manifest it in different ways and one of them is that everything your partner does bothers you at such a level that you let him know in many ways.
That almost always end in fights. If you are still fighting for nearly every single thing or worse, if you are ever yelling at each other, it is a clear signal that everything is falling apart.
Picking fights with your loved one is a sign of irritation and unfortunately, the beginning of the end, so keep this in mind because once you reach this point, it is too hard to get back.
It really doesn’t matter why you are fighting for, is everything leads to a fight is a sign that tells that maybe it is time to move on.
I know, breaking up is not easy, but if talking doesn’t work anymore, you need to do something about it.
If you have different plans every night and none of those include spending time with your partner, you have something to worry about.
Making plans is something that many of us do, when you are in a relationship is normal to take into account the opinion of the person you can spend a big part of your life.
If you don’t include this person in your future ideas, is because you’re probably don’t see too much future with this person.
So, if your boyfriend or girlfriend doesn’t include you to his or her big plans the next Friday night or next to the Christmas, imagine if going to include you in his/her most significant plans.
When you have a mature relationship with many years behind it is natural to you to wonder where it is going.
You might ask yourself is this is going to turn into marriage or if there is going to be kids and all.
If you cannot picture in the future with your partner, it is a pretty clear sign that everything is about to end.
Another clear indication is when you guys are almost total strangers. Things that used to create bonds between are no longer there, and you don’t share your stuff anymore.
You cannot trust your partner anymore when says where they have been or who they have been with.
In different times you don’t even have to ask this questions, but now you not only have to ask but when the answers come you don’t believe it.
You used to share every single thing about the day or the week, personal issues, dreams, passions, among other.
But now you barely talk to each other and when you do is annoying or useless.
This is the most prominent sign that you need to move on now.
Well, let me tell you that according to psychologists this is a clear sign that is over.
The sex creates strong bonds between couples if you cannot remember when the last time you have sex was, you are in troubles.
And I believe that is worse when you have it, and there are changes.
When you have sex and its nothing compared to how it used to be between you before.
As if everything was forced or fabricated.
The lack of sex or the decrease of it can be due to a bunch of reasons, stress could be one, but if this goes on and on, probably is just another sign.
Of course, there are tons of ways you can figure out if everything is over, this is just a few, but if you have more than one, you must think about the possibility of things closing to an end.
So, this was just a few reasons in an ocean of things you can see in your relationship that points that everything is wrong.
The best thing to do in these cases is finish everything so you can end on good terms.
I don’t believe in that of being friends after the breakup, but some people do.
So, do whatever you need to do always feeling comfortable about it and don’t be afraid of moving on.